So~
Sleeping at the cottage.
Here is a little story for you:
Back before there were three,
there were two little boys,
just about two years apart.
There were some days I was ready to pull my hair out
with those two-
The "learning to share a favorite toy",
the "hands to ourselves",
the "git yourself to time-out RIGHT NOW",
the crying, and whinny days of two little preschoolers
on Summer Break.
There were many days I fell into bed,
worrying they would never be best buds,
-or even kind to each other ever-
worrying I was a terrible mom...
There was one day in particular
at the cottage
One Summer Day.
The boys had a BAD day-
the fighting,
the arguing,
the crying,
the time-outs to correct behavior.
I was stressed-out with them,
and terribly upset with how the day had gone.
And-
As I put them to bed
that night-
I was glad my parenting part of my day was done.
Tomorrow was a new day-
I would try my best again
to help mold and encourage these boys
into becoming the friends, and loving brothers
I knew they were capable of becoming.
A few hours after putting them to bed,
-all was now blissfully quiet-
I went to check on them,
and found them like this:
Holding hands in their sleep.
{With blurry, teary vision- I dashed to find my camera, and capture that moment-and that was way before blogging!}
That moment captured
as they slept,
was the reassurance I needed that day
to know the parenting
I was pursuing
to help two
little boys become friends
was working.
I was elated, and encouraged.
Now, here it is-
instead of two little boys sharing a family,
-and a bed at the summer cottage-,
There are three.
Three little, precious boys.
The days are filled with fun,
the falling asleep is
-Rambunctious
at times,
and noisy but-
memory building,
I pray:
Wishing you the sweetest of sleeps tonight,

(...Who placed her Ruby Red Flip-Flops by the front door before hopping into bed herself tonight-)



7 comments:
So precious! It is wonderful when you can catch glimpses of joy after a trying day, dear friend. Your sweet boys love each other, although liking can get a bit tricky at times! I know the feeling.:) Lori
They are so absolutely precious. I love that you get to be their Mama!
So glad you got that cute picture. Never having had a brother or sister and only having had one child myself I am intrigued to hear about this.
Lindsay
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Beautiful! I know all too well about the fighting and carrying on...all too well.
That is simply the sweetest picture!
What a sweet post. Brought tears to my eyes.
making me cry... making me cry.
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